
十一、分岔 (序)41Please respect copyright.PENANA163V9PjAiI
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,41Please respect copyright.PENANA6huMM5sfCE
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:41Please respect copyright.PENANAHvTW3qZJgf
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,41Please respect copyright.PENANAyJ9fBCykDt
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),41Please respect copyright.PENANATb16KaehBA
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:41Please respect copyright.PENANA4t0HOXTwiS
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,41Please respect copyright.PENANAYFJwjDGZy6
半分苦頭也不想要」41Please respect copyright.PENANALdXkQIH0in
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,41Please respect copyright.PENANA6e7EP41WKW
這作者恐怕不知道,41Please respect copyright.PENANAPL8RKqkON6
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。41Please respect copyright.PENANA0lArvCqd5p
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,41Please respect copyright.PENANAzY09IH69Me
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。41Please respect copyright.PENANAkspBLMaFhA
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一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,41Please respect copyright.PENANAH5Jw3tXUTJ
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?41Please respect copyright.PENANArrIPMJMk4x
又或者,41Please respect copyright.PENANAzW3ZUxf4CC
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,41Please respect copyright.PENANAI6sMvaL1Xq
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?41Please respect copyright.PENANAJlwydUoWJD
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而且,41Please respect copyright.PENANAIw6sXZvwzb
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,41Please respect copyright.PENANAQS4FW7ygDE
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。41Please respect copyright.PENANAjImARKt8ZE
叫足這「三個餸」的話,41Please respect copyright.PENANAETMtorsHpc
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,41Please respect copyright.PENANA8jLJllNTRk
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。41Please respect copyright.PENANARX53mFpVgm
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,41Please respect copyright.PENANAjekal7pj7t
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。41Please respect copyright.PENANAF0MxtvDe2h
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,41Please respect copyright.PENANA6buxfKYZOe
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。41Please respect copyright.PENANAS8qMTrceT4
但,41Please respect copyright.PENANAwq4ooM8NyO
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,41Please respect copyright.PENANAfMkU8m0NxH
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,41Please respect copyright.PENANAyQbGbXNdq7
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。41Please respect copyright.PENANAmu9gFJGmOl
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,41Please respect copyright.PENANAZNWaKnwhkV
是兩個完全不同的概念。41Please respect copyright.PENANA2EkPf94nAv
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,41Please respect copyright.PENANARtfDn3bH9L
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,41Please respect copyright.PENANAwl3rKcU6zB
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。41Please respect copyright.PENANAjXusRGDHcp
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,41Please respect copyright.PENANAQPX382RYtB
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,41Please respect copyright.PENANAAGzNmqPAWG
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。41Please respect copyright.PENANAFPzoNN2ruz
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。41Please respect copyright.PENANA6YbVsDGZB4
除了錢,41Please respect copyright.PENANA5qS6W9Orl9
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,41Please respect copyright.PENANAh2MIFPiGyf
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。41Please respect copyright.PENANAAgHMZh7YWp
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,41Please respect copyright.PENANAm0ABEmwpVB
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,41Please respect copyright.PENANAu4TW0f2fSp
感情更加要預留空間。41Please respect copyright.PENANAbISHKaUNfn
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《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》41Please respect copyright.PENANAPUc4qFb4wY
戀愛心理,第十一回。41Please respect copyright.PENANAbXnA34cmoR