
67Please respect copyright.PENANAbkeQpexh4p
究竟一段「理想」的戀愛關係是什麼?67Please respect copyright.PENANAfb1nRAoPBb
香港著名作家鄭梓靈在新作《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,67Please respect copyright.PENANAHhza7P4szS
指出「一個好的伴侶,一定擁有多重身份,67Please respect copyright.PENANAH1Xo63GmNf
戀人、知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊,67Please respect copyright.PENANAEpFlJHZvhD
也就是我們的靈魂伴侶。」67Please respect copyright.PENANAVbLdIkYHWI
67Please respect copyright.PENANACGV8c5Hd3k
這本新作,67Please respect copyright.PENANATXwBuRUVLQ
正正在2024年書展入手。
簡單而言,67Please respect copyright.PENANAUlE0QajKS7
作者的說法是put all eggs in one basket,67Please respect copyright.PENANABo57soHNtp
只不過不是投資金錢,而是情感。67Please respect copyright.PENANAaJffkkLbX8
這個情況要成立的前提,67Please respect copyright.PENANAAjymKe6fr3
就是所謂的「靈魂伴侶」不會有一日見異思遷。
但,67Please respect copyright.PENANATh4CNJoP3g
作者無提及的是,67Please respect copyright.PENANA0KwX8WZumZ
假如這段關係裡雙方其中一方不能維持的話,67Please respect copyright.PENANAfm4lniVjm7
就等同失掉了這一個好朋友,67Please respect copyright.PENANAXoZvQ26waR
即是失去了作者口中的「知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊」。67Please respect copyright.PENANAgs2lnV7xEM
痛苦的根源,67Please respect copyright.PENANA18w9xH3JTP
正正就是彼此之間過份坦誠、了解,67Please respect copyright.PENANAE2poUwarlQ
即「因了解而分開」,67Please respect copyright.PENANANYG8prbkVh
因為每一個人總有不想向人提及的黑暗面,67Please respect copyright.PENANAKBAkmtZJxF
不欲分享的對象當然包括作者口中的理想伴侶。
「再見亦是朋友」,67Please respect copyright.PENANA8fMZqGIzIm
指的是戀人分了手後仍然可以再做朋友,67Please respect copyright.PENANABXa7GiC7xm
但「朋友」不是「戀人」分了手後的產物。67Please respect copyright.PENANA6fXz6mKtuj
67Please respect copyright.PENANAlhN8qGdlVY
若然套用鄭梓靈的說法,67Please respect copyright.PENANAac0qZ5Do1g
黃慧詩文質彬彬,又有才華,可以與鍾仁宇有很多交流,67Please respect copyright.PENANArgdW1EF9ul
既是知己、又是寫作班同學,67Please respect copyright.PENANAjTk2ZLclzC
鍾仁宇的「靈魂伴侶」可能已經出現,67Please respect copyright.PENANAeLpRrLTUu4
兩人之間的關係突飛猛進是可以預期的。67Please respect copyright.PENANAzEJWFbnrD4
67Please respect copyright.PENANAhOaATXksCx
有人話,67Please respect copyright.PENANArt1ot3Ml1B
人到了一定年紀後會發現,67Please respect copyright.PENANAsQv2uTxZB5
需要的只是一個不會離開自己的人,67Please respect copyright.PENANAXQnzlUPZmZ
只要溫暖相伴,就可以共度餘生。67Please respect copyright.PENANAtFdU7nA6va
鍾仁宇很深信這一點,67Please respect copyright.PENANAhUo8imfodK
不過兩人之間對戀愛的觀念、對將來的想像、對伴侶的忠誠,67Please respect copyright.PENANAQO0w1eDDtu
原來是南轅北轍。67Please respect copyright.PENANARwZVTrUCfU
黃慧詩提供了 角色、故事大綱及詐騙技巧給鍾仁宇,67Please respect copyright.PENANAKTIA3OucRm
他慢慢陷入了情感的沼澤裡。
當一個人陷入沼澤後,67Please respect copyright.PENANAyvSf3JUVTm
愈掙扎的話便愈不能離開,67Please respect copyright.PENANAoMiA7tFjSm
最終死在沼澤裡。67Please respect copyright.PENANArkJ5tbZldp
讀者們,67Please respect copyright.PENANA6viKAjbYY5
如果你人生裡真是有一個好像作家鄭梓靈所說,67Please respect copyright.PENANAZj01biBwra
出現了擁有「多重身份」的靈魂伴侶,67Please respect copyright.PENANAKRm7NJ3Vof
你敢相信面前這個是真真正正的他/她嗎?
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》67Please respect copyright.PENANAPbWHTpNOzX
戀愛心理,第七回。67Please respect copyright.PENANAiuwNQTs83j