
91Please respect copyright.PENANAHm1JuUeFDf
究竟一段「理想」的戀愛關係是什麼?91Please respect copyright.PENANAyOFwUBZ0iN
香港著名作家鄭梓靈在新作《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,91Please respect copyright.PENANAGKrKWlErvC
指出「一個好的伴侶,一定擁有多重身份,91Please respect copyright.PENANAgsX2K4DJqI
戀人、知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊,91Please respect copyright.PENANAuFHoGkzWIj
也就是我們的靈魂伴侶。」91Please respect copyright.PENANAJaUL6nYTdz
91Please respect copyright.PENANAXM3iamPGmE
這本新作,91Please respect copyright.PENANAERmJfheGX0
正正在2024年書展入手。
簡單而言,91Please respect copyright.PENANAaWrN6n35SK
作者的說法是put all eggs in one basket,91Please respect copyright.PENANAJaAFE7ugff
只不過不是投資金錢,而是情感。91Please respect copyright.PENANA7jzNcYgLzg
這個情況要成立的前提,91Please respect copyright.PENANAbzKH3Cm26C
就是所謂的「靈魂伴侶」不會有一日見異思遷。
但,91Please respect copyright.PENANAr69wRVF6OV
作者無提及的是,91Please respect copyright.PENANAgW3wVTqL6E
假如這段關係裡雙方其中一方不能維持的話,91Please respect copyright.PENANASNWohirnXJ
就等同失掉了這一個好朋友,91Please respect copyright.PENANAYaf0oeKt3P
即是失去了作者口中的「知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊」。91Please respect copyright.PENANAH8U1MDtlYP
痛苦的根源,91Please respect copyright.PENANA8VVSOM40Au
正正就是彼此之間過份坦誠、了解,91Please respect copyright.PENANA2LVJiXC8Ru
即「因了解而分開」,91Please respect copyright.PENANAFNDEDxZlZt
因為每一個人總有不想向人提及的黑暗面,91Please respect copyright.PENANAeKwHL93DfM
不欲分享的對象當然包括作者口中的理想伴侶。
「再見亦是朋友」,91Please respect copyright.PENANAYG8rXTnwYq
指的是戀人分了手後仍然可以再做朋友,91Please respect copyright.PENANAJeuQwQUEKc
但「朋友」不是「戀人」分了手後的產物。91Please respect copyright.PENANAUtD5ueiMsB
91Please respect copyright.PENANAFpBYWIZOjI
若然套用鄭梓靈的說法,91Please respect copyright.PENANA2x6jCs9eM2
黃慧詩文質彬彬,又有才華,可以與鍾仁宇有很多交流,91Please respect copyright.PENANAbvtzwjFbz4
既是知己、又是寫作班同學,91Please respect copyright.PENANAUfOHqj0t42
鍾仁宇的「靈魂伴侶」可能已經出現,91Please respect copyright.PENANA2PhzVs2l6f
兩人之間的關係突飛猛進是可以預期的。91Please respect copyright.PENANAcQOm9oYrea
91Please respect copyright.PENANAQZYd3InNaB
有人話,91Please respect copyright.PENANAC3dO2fXb2B
人到了一定年紀後會發現,91Please respect copyright.PENANAZTMbtlopCP
需要的只是一個不會離開自己的人,91Please respect copyright.PENANAD843dvWeQ1
只要溫暖相伴,就可以共度餘生。91Please respect copyright.PENANAXHCjYb4yWe
鍾仁宇很深信這一點,91Please respect copyright.PENANA7HJAmMmJJu
不過兩人之間對戀愛的觀念、對將來的想像、對伴侶的忠誠,91Please respect copyright.PENANAL6UN9UHLOr
原來是南轅北轍。91Please respect copyright.PENANAvnNaWqr3M9
黃慧詩提供了 角色、故事大綱及詐騙技巧給鍾仁宇,91Please respect copyright.PENANACYqxJFGcpG
他慢慢陷入了情感的沼澤裡。
當一個人陷入沼澤後,91Please respect copyright.PENANAgB5KwM2iHc
愈掙扎的話便愈不能離開,91Please respect copyright.PENANAZH9GwXIFeJ
最終死在沼澤裡。91Please respect copyright.PENANACI58Q8atyX
讀者們,91Please respect copyright.PENANAI1Er3JASBQ
如果你人生裡真是有一個好像作家鄭梓靈所說,91Please respect copyright.PENANAdWjvrQAm3W
出現了擁有「多重身份」的靈魂伴侶,91Please respect copyright.PENANAs5IWwpGyuV
你敢相信面前這個是真真正正的他/她嗎?
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》91Please respect copyright.PENANAFhTQWXK3Zf
戀愛心理,第七回。91Please respect copyright.PENANAZqqht6dpPV