
十一、分岔 (序)69Please respect copyright.PENANAqQQmrkpu7T
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,69Please respect copyright.PENANAdWBhVgLsni
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:69Please respect copyright.PENANAcGyWVg0EDm
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,69Please respect copyright.PENANAK8YUUTLe0n
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),69Please respect copyright.PENANAODvwqMMZwb
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:69Please respect copyright.PENANAUcpjmP186h
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,69Please respect copyright.PENANASW1IGFnx8G
半分苦頭也不想要」69Please respect copyright.PENANA9y0nufNvI4
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,69Please respect copyright.PENANAGFI8Do5gAS
這作者恐怕不知道,69Please respect copyright.PENANA0Kcv5EnPmm
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。69Please respect copyright.PENANAxvq7ZqQkBZ
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,69Please respect copyright.PENANABvLuTduEyy
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。69Please respect copyright.PENANA5UNQ8u75J1
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一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,69Please respect copyright.PENANACTOoQ7mvZp
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?69Please respect copyright.PENANANEe9STTnFM
又或者,69Please respect copyright.PENANAmSNROz7AYx
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,69Please respect copyright.PENANAV8ySCHq3hJ
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?69Please respect copyright.PENANAWvfNie5Ofy
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而且,69Please respect copyright.PENANAEyrpbAjWXg
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,69Please respect copyright.PENANAb5Pe0U1yjY
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。69Please respect copyright.PENANAYViR0rMgz6
叫足這「三個餸」的話,69Please respect copyright.PENANADnxyfBZLqq
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,69Please respect copyright.PENANAOXpng94Ouy
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。69Please respect copyright.PENANAHcURwHuMlq
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,69Please respect copyright.PENANAk9in5CVySC
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。69Please respect copyright.PENANA35lTGVSrDX
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,69Please respect copyright.PENANAoZWNsYEdVS
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。69Please respect copyright.PENANAHBa8X1fB7s
但,69Please respect copyright.PENANAkXczirpOWa
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,69Please respect copyright.PENANAtqkSyfYIg2
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,69Please respect copyright.PENANAOMQzCeOshJ
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。69Please respect copyright.PENANAWW5DdQVjeS
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,69Please respect copyright.PENANAdeEuKmEBJ1
是兩個完全不同的概念。69Please respect copyright.PENANA0ZeKyim0mr
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,69Please respect copyright.PENANAAunam9XhjT
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,69Please respect copyright.PENANAKhAYrbszlS
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。69Please respect copyright.PENANAIllZFYRt6W
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,69Please respect copyright.PENANARrEid8Iin3
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,69Please respect copyright.PENANASj0SMRkJJr
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。69Please respect copyright.PENANAevBqUvZJhS
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。69Please respect copyright.PENANAP8gGz0p511
除了錢,69Please respect copyright.PENANAozoJZmgUGH
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,69Please respect copyright.PENANA7pCWA6XSfM
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。69Please respect copyright.PENANAk2qgT1qsdK
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,69Please respect copyright.PENANAWT6upRh2BA
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,69Please respect copyright.PENANAc7xKOoJWlx
感情更加要預留空間。69Please respect copyright.PENANAOtejyNCVB8
69Please respect copyright.PENANAXNqPTxX4tL
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》69Please respect copyright.PENANAbRizLTwoc8
戀愛心理,第十一回。69Please respect copyright.PENANApaphWfUyoq