
十一、分岔 (序)62Please respect copyright.PENANA27VfsoI7yE
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,62Please respect copyright.PENANAhZrGLdhYZS
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:62Please respect copyright.PENANAHSlIxPEjlG
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,62Please respect copyright.PENANAiEpEuh306r
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),62Please respect copyright.PENANABWw0n8kFx0
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:62Please respect copyright.PENANAop4SD88Rb7
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,62Please respect copyright.PENANArQPULHJbDA
半分苦頭也不想要」62Please respect copyright.PENANAOCED1a4VYD
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,62Please respect copyright.PENANAYRBYZ6e45j
這作者恐怕不知道,62Please respect copyright.PENANAuurS8lLtkt
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。62Please respect copyright.PENANAB5tLDUjSpz
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,62Please respect copyright.PENANACkfz9fyQTQ
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。62Please respect copyright.PENANAtOMuq0EO3T
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一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,62Please respect copyright.PENANAFJ54fgVv9r
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?62Please respect copyright.PENANA2FMKcuDgqs
又或者,62Please respect copyright.PENANAxEjiuEzKpB
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,62Please respect copyright.PENANA2mZJrtcaxZ
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?62Please respect copyright.PENANAk6S5LfVV4m
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而且,62Please respect copyright.PENANAoPyD2W2AZn
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,62Please respect copyright.PENANAmP6fds96t9
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。62Please respect copyright.PENANAGVf4lhdEVw
叫足這「三個餸」的話,62Please respect copyright.PENANA6qovWdlcW2
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,62Please respect copyright.PENANAnWJ7HctpKi
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。62Please respect copyright.PENANAjcWB4BrL1y
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,62Please respect copyright.PENANAp000H5L0uY
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。62Please respect copyright.PENANAqzwtqQ44eI
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,62Please respect copyright.PENANACMLXYqizzM
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。62Please respect copyright.PENANAvrdtCavIps
但,62Please respect copyright.PENANAer9oZnlR0a
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,62Please respect copyright.PENANAZ82QqmPAS2
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,62Please respect copyright.PENANAP8qt7si8JB
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。62Please respect copyright.PENANAlwz8S31kAd
62Please respect copyright.PENANALqu5w7CuPI
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,62Please respect copyright.PENANA6hrvEfRN77
是兩個完全不同的概念。62Please respect copyright.PENANABMODthVQRO
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,62Please respect copyright.PENANAGiEzuQZMW7
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,62Please respect copyright.PENANA1RsFbt0kA3
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。62Please respect copyright.PENANAzIFEqpFsaR
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,62Please respect copyright.PENANAFOpMw1f4H9
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,62Please respect copyright.PENANAMe3qEUJaL1
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。62Please respect copyright.PENANAqA9xYq8Rfk
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。62Please respect copyright.PENANA1oeNmlQGtZ
除了錢,62Please respect copyright.PENANAur0RlBMWO3
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,62Please respect copyright.PENANAUn9aZwf0SW
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。62Please respect copyright.PENANAqwkC4m6R0E
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,62Please respect copyright.PENANACYJvmUma3e
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,62Please respect copyright.PENANAMOw2itzIBi
感情更加要預留空間。62Please respect copyright.PENANAM6UTiFSAqP
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《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》62Please respect copyright.PENANAU4CaQkKne0
戀愛心理,第十一回。62Please respect copyright.PENANAJy1k9SzqdW