
十一、分岔 (序)64Please respect copyright.PENANAmx15f2XIzX
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,64Please respect copyright.PENANArwhuhfLria
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:64Please respect copyright.PENANAynr93Y4ACt
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,64Please respect copyright.PENANAC0VL3o7aUU
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),64Please respect copyright.PENANA5BHEznjdYK
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:64Please respect copyright.PENANA8XFLNNWb2g
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,64Please respect copyright.PENANAUpeZrhxqOe
半分苦頭也不想要」64Please respect copyright.PENANADoxqyvkZvs
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,64Please respect copyright.PENANAtnWQyTOfQv
這作者恐怕不知道,64Please respect copyright.PENANA2xS7GrJGaN
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。64Please respect copyright.PENANA9LGldyzyzM
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,64Please respect copyright.PENANAzzQESnv54X
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。64Please respect copyright.PENANANmDhaoNPBK
64Please respect copyright.PENANA0d7So58GVK
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,64Please respect copyright.PENANAG2u9TJsx2x
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?64Please respect copyright.PENANAr46qOokl3I
又或者,64Please respect copyright.PENANAthgiJEfzUL
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,64Please respect copyright.PENANAffdtaaFq8B
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?64Please respect copyright.PENANA0d92f54SLd
64Please respect copyright.PENANAZKP3nHm3jT
而且,64Please respect copyright.PENANAhd2tj8TafR
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,64Please respect copyright.PENANAnrvhIwpnKR
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。64Please respect copyright.PENANAmkxFD02myh
叫足這「三個餸」的話,64Please respect copyright.PENANACpYfPqi8Je
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,64Please respect copyright.PENANA1CKVvaUrsj
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。64Please respect copyright.PENANAsnyfAUDFnZ
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,64Please respect copyright.PENANAt8TRdQ5jsK
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。64Please respect copyright.PENANAcKwBagnPwf
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,64Please respect copyright.PENANAclN5Q6icbj
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。64Please respect copyright.PENANAYCzPnzuhzk
但,64Please respect copyright.PENANA6Fdb3kYQKG
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,64Please respect copyright.PENANAfvNrqGoqzw
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,64Please respect copyright.PENANAXdJpBDhio1
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。64Please respect copyright.PENANAEEAB7GyGO1
64Please respect copyright.PENANAIwBAeAbYkP
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,64Please respect copyright.PENANA2iC62NDxZZ
是兩個完全不同的概念。64Please respect copyright.PENANAbUEsVOuZMO
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,64Please respect copyright.PENANAAPBKyvEaKK
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,64Please respect copyright.PENANAtsLRi9C5ae
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。64Please respect copyright.PENANAjbaSoPUXM6
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,64Please respect copyright.PENANAXryJi7MXJL
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,64Please respect copyright.PENANALSPXDKGzxB
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。64Please respect copyright.PENANAprEnh3k6zw
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。64Please respect copyright.PENANAOUh3HPJ39d
除了錢,64Please respect copyright.PENANA2AAH2W1Ujc
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,64Please respect copyright.PENANAoyMcTnmr3A
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。64Please respect copyright.PENANAKTCedvngWk
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,64Please respect copyright.PENANA4zdMAfcEd2
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,64Please respect copyright.PENANAkYz9idixp7
感情更加要預留空間。64Please respect copyright.PENANARcuDjiMdJ5
64Please respect copyright.PENANACedsWBiHJa
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》64Please respect copyright.PENANAS56cXHuLJh
戀愛心理,第十一回。64Please respect copyright.PENANAsr5XxZNxWf