臨近萬聖節的那段時期，除了Cathrine之外，我還在Bumble上match上另一個女生——Lia，真是一個既冷門又有趣的英文名字。（我當然懂得這個字怎麼念，只要把「li」和「a」音斬開來念就不難。漢化音是：「里亞」）378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhalnnFXH91
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Lia：有冇興趣同我一齊女裝出街呀？😍378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJQfbhsZAL7
Lia：同我一齊著lolita服378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡioRf2CAS4d
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依Bumble上的老規矩，即使match了還要等到女方主動發起開場白，才能展開聊天室。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuSyUsxAnKP
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Bumble似乎比起一般的交友app顯得更加女權主義，在這種機制下，什至有人形容：只有女生才有權選擇。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡS4dDKrImZ9
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不過這對我這個生理上是男生的人來講，絲毫不影響；我完全不把它當成一回事。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbEfHfDJ9Gl
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這個什麼「等待女方主動發起開場白」的機制，我可反而有一點高傲和滿足感。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8lcN1LCGgQ
378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiovKxzuQ7x
每當女生主動讚美著我的女裝打扮時，心裡不禁自喜：好耶，又有人欣喜這份藝術了！378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoIALMHpxEO
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使用交友app久了，我很清楚自己相對於一般的男生，我說只是相對而已，是不需要動腦筋去想說話，在萬中無一的雄性競爭者之中，討好女生。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsreNZT7rjZ
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因為我知道自己的女裝打扮照，早就引起人的好奇心。人一旦對你有了好奇心，即使對你完全無視他，他也會主動找上你。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDGKCtlXVF3
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我：我係大姐姐嚟囉wor😂378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAquYjYPg5S
我：我太高，carry唔起lolita😂378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcRH7Q3IhOz
我：你有真係有lolita服？378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡm8VcWoDjJf
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Lia：係呀，不過最近想買下新衫。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ13rLwB5a2z
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一如既往，每當match上女生之後，都離不開談論雙方的興趣、學業、工作等等，還有⋯⋯生活瑣事。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzFsvJ7WsgF
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我：你哋BU係咪好摺㗎？378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9w5Dh3Hx7y
我：我聽講BU有耶蘇睇住，玩嘅風氣正經啲378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVrg9TCPVfN
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Lia：邊會摺呀？378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJ4XpjaiV1k
Lia：不知勁癲378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0HIPS39ije
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我：就嚟萬聖節，我間Hall攪鬼屋event，我去咗幫手378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpxPGmJDIz6
我：拿，send張合照比你睇下先378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9NPa9EnRPy
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10月29日，我成為了hall 4鬼屋的工作人員，那晚我打扮成一個女護士，相片中的我是身穿一套白色的護士服，衣服上還有些染血，我還把眼睛打扮得像是腫了起來，節日氣氛可謂十足。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡatCTqXhCqZ
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Lia：你又真係扮得勁似女仔wor😂378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡApz1ceYetJ
Lia：個look係幾正，不過你個妝有啲唔係好襯到你套衫。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDTNGobhtdQ
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我：其實Halloween個妝係好易攪，隨便整個樣就好嚇人😂378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGSffbTqvUD
我：我都仲有套女祭司服，想正日攞嚟著。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHdXxnR0EZN
我：到時我會認真返化妝🙈378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0N8W3UifON
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整體來講，Lia的回覆速度蠻快的，她是個十分健談的人，感覺她在女生之中，也算是數一數二大方的人，百無禁忌，什麼話題都不忌諱。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡN6IE7CoffT
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大概就是這樣談了一個星期，好了，差不多是時候該約她出來了。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjn2zQVpxxu
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我：今個星期有冇時間出嚟食嘢？378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡatJEN0x8oW
我：可以去cafe店。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLf2EFEC9DR
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Lia：好呀，今個星期幾？378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlRwTj1qW9x
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我：星期五啦。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkpaL7YruLo
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她答應得蠻爽快，如是這樣過了幾天，就在正日前的兩天，我再確認一次。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1gywuShRfU
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我：後日6點ok嗎？378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIiVEm8dVS5
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Lia：不如再改下個星期啦，我要OT。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNK6xht508V
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所以說，安排在愈遠時間的約會，不確定性也愈大。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7Fjjv4wgu0
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尤其是網上交友，你必須打鐵趁熱，盡快為約會作鋪墊，一旦這名為「新鮮感」的熱鐵冷下了，就再很難令對方拿出熱情來見你。378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9ZKeA7n1JV
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為防一拖再拖，不了了之，我拋下這句：「咁再過兩日又如何？星期日你都day off啦」378Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzWPiGhijqz
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