第二早，我們又繼續聊。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFhQJaKu5pX
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Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡk6gGhq5BwS
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Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpkmXOFsPFE
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqdtPvm8HAv
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMDSxl2bRqy
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相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNy1vaMyfkQ
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Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOcepYiCgBB
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我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVGfPlaQHWv
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3r0JQtSdSo
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Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9yHcmph71a
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOzwdHk9NTN
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡG7gCFOp5dQ
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對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMzSUHoBzrR
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我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOaQKh1pPbz
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我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeDyWHvJ0oT
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Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKbVTx78ueg
Annie：不過我不敢苟同516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHjyTs3PWp2
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTHqSRvC0sS
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我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡi9L9RfdsHP
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Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQAtuJKjTb9
516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ70RuHMkGuo
我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLG02myJJoE
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Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡANQV8QiKM0
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Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGk487Velst
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當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7j93nkFS8y
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一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNiprRvVDEs
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在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvCffHPWvjy
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對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡO1tM7v1Zsc
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本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdbvc4lJUpz
516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8gCMRIaUX4
Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmmQAhXF9lY
516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeC85PWzdf3
我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpKHcmDk9ju
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我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkc5cg5C1zR
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唉，我都知來不及了。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUCt7HovVex
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Annie：下？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvbuY8lV6ip
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjLPOSJ0aui
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然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3Rnj8vk6Ig
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「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2W7trAkvrC
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIAVsqltb5M
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyakYrRaXEy
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9wc2g4nEBJ
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突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfwfi8y0xGh
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啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQROD0bHEvB
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啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡljiP7VgJMp
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啊，我做人不用你教！！！！516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSTskMPfCvJ
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我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNtfS22thcv
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既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡI61gQ2A3yy
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封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOvBsDXHhDh
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憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡj0dn2Dnt3r
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Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuXSyBifnuv
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我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ48TayFtUnH
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心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhgLkecvHq5
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Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8FNgeFXLqP
516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6gJGoyv6pG
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqVkxdeShEp
516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2BOSGUC5LF
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡidT8TjXYLf
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Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ16IukVcd5I
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我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsq27YArsSi
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Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡToixI6gOVx
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6xZIZHejFW
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKgPdfIHNwp
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdsf48DXtuX
（陰陰嘴笑）516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTLif2terS1
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我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡezx1arGWo4
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又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSqi8ltQaa9
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我：屌佢老味！516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqs91BNNcs0
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkUt8UqijI9
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Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRvdEPPfEyC
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我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpM8YYhFqR0
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Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4QmJTcjbT9
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我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiEj33A0zGK
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgefgHbtwDw
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Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTfiLAjGN71
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgeIND8XLsj
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我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkScd430Yxx
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Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEdI1dSFpwu
（暗笑一聲）516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUnlJ2xc7Cr
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBlRlxuCvDn
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8fEOCXM1fA
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經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ29JwMRIxSZ
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事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkDgt8snQrp
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事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNKRIaGKKZe
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先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8EZlW7VtrP
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其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPyjhppETgx
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現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvR5qxWhC0n
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Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaGWD6uB4K7
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人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡysizit2F6r
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我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡORIvRZ4H5X
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再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVuBQY9fjKE
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在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。516Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2uqiXCScCA
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好了，繼續找下個吧。
Penana
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