照例擺出這本使用書連結《MBTI 我,和我的使用說明書――雪力獻給16型人們,找到最舒服的自己》。
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【目錄】
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MBTI改變了我80Please respect copyright.PENANA9PBeaHGMvq
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Chapter 1 做最舒服的自己80Please respect copyright.PENANAwUhwzVx6A3
為了人設而活的日子80Please respect copyright.PENANALVXUv9Qwkr
透過MBTI看懂自己80Please respect copyright.PENANA7JucOQsxLq
完整,不用完美80Please respect copyright.PENANAqtC5i6VGr1
脫下面具,才能重生80Please respect copyright.PENANAqEAtecCvpJ
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Chapter 2 讓MBTI幫助你,而非定義你80Please respect copyright.PENANAY0ONtTzAZV
開始前,必須知道的事80Please respect copyright.PENANAo3uXcip1E5
雪力的MBTI悖論80Please respect copyright.PENANAueq4wriPU4
這些迷思,你也中了嗎?80Please respect copyright.PENANA0S0skamrcp
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Chapter 3 MBTI四個向度——一切從這裡開始80Please respect copyright.PENANApYF52qdPFR
E vs. I:從哪裡獲得能量?80Please respect copyright.PENANAQzc6KLFvuN
S vs. N:如何接收資訊?80Please respect copyright.PENANA8DgbHmZK6z
T vs. F:如何做決定?80Please respect copyright.PENANAIOIaSkYsaT
J vs. P:做決定後,如何執行?80Please respect copyright.PENANAWXK0ylTj9Z
開始組合真正的你80Please respect copyright.PENANAjldNciD33F
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Chapter 4 IS_J——珍惜「老字號」的經驗80Please respect copyright.PENANA1lJqzoRaLC
致ISTJ:「你如果不說,有些人真的不懂」80Please respect copyright.PENANAhMuMSOoGKs
致ISFJ:「唯一不變的是變化本身」80Please respect copyright.PENANA9sjnJml2uw
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Chapter 5 ES_P——反應迅速又能活在當下80Please respect copyright.PENANAFzYWxOS2bh
致ESFP:「你不需要永遠為了讓別人開心而回應」80Please respect copyright.PENANANsVIghrZuj
致ESTP:「事前演練是為了上場發揮100%的實力」80Please respect copyright.PENANAWICM0J6I30
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Chapter 6 IN_J——從內在邏輯看到未來趨勢80Please respect copyright.PENANAIF1mnymFR6
致INTJ:「讓別人聽得懂也是一種智慧」80Please respect copyright.PENANAeJVV6xbbvp
致INFJ:「不要忘記留一點大愛給自己」80Please respect copyright.PENANA6P5m9gAZkg
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Chapter 7 EN_P——天生內建強大的雷達80Please respect copyright.PENANAKrgJlvCm9D
致ENFP:「不是三分鐘熱度,探索是你的天賦」80Please respect copyright.PENANAfnv5nYCbG0
致ENTP:「慎選戰場,不要贏了戰鬥,卻輸了戰爭」80Please respect copyright.PENANATeQPHjvKYb
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Chapter 8 I_TP——重視邏輯與品質管理80Please respect copyright.PENANAdAikv32gf8
致ISTP:「把自己當成觀察家,面對別人的情感」80Please respect copyright.PENANAnEtrXdrgSH
致INTP:「不要只看到水杯沒滿,也要看到杯裡有水了」80Please respect copyright.PENANAArOediuYRB
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Chapter 9 E_TJ——為了高效執行而封藏情感80Please respect copyright.PENANAw2j4U6EwAn
致ENTJ:「請先確認別人有與你相同的成功圖像」80Please respect copyright.PENANAyEFKsVIPVg
致ESTJ:「抵達終點的路上,別忘了欣賞風景」80Please respect copyright.PENANAToglQTwUDV
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Chapter 10 I_FP——透過自身感受而了解世界80Please respect copyright.PENANAuUl9Q3OOIu
致ISFP:「把你的情緒化為作品呈現出來」80Please respect copyright.PENANA3fOCN7xFuu
致INFP:「把在地球的人生當作修行之旅」80Please respect copyright.PENANAUFkB4RVKym
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Chapter 11 E_FJ——重視人與人之間的理解以及團體和諧80Please respect copyright.PENANAqg7mvNnFdi
致ENFJ:「你的貢獻可能未來才會受人由衷地欣賞」80Please respect copyright.PENANAuOlPIAHXX5
致ESFJ:「大家過去與現在的需求,不一定是未來的需求」80Please respect copyright.PENANAMqI0XoryG3
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結語/80Please respect copyright.PENANA1u8qNTtLRg
世界需要不同的你我80Please respect copyright.PENANAUY5al6excy
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致謝80Please respect copyright.PENANAknozFxNui9
附錄
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雪力,可以說是很早就在網路上推廣 MBTI 的華人作家,我也看過她的 YT 頻道,覺得她的內容不但有料,而且態度真誠。她在這本書提醒讀者:
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from 《MBTI 我,和我的使用說明書――雪力獻給16型人們,找到最舒服的自己》(以下截圖皆出自同一本書)
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此外,還有進行 MBTI 時,特別要注意之處:
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我把這些截圖,放在這個 MBTI 系列日記/筆記裡面,提醒自己,也提醒大家。
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雪力這本使用書,和第一本小品書分類不一樣,她是拿出一個字母 (即「面向」) 當成探討點,令其他三個字母相同者,兩兩相比。她拿出的字母有兩組:一組是「T (思考/理性) vs. F (情感/感性)」;另一組是「N (直覺/全盤) vs. S (實感/細節)」—— 總共分為八組,放在這本書第四章至第十一章。
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請注意雪力這本書的分類 (見上開目錄),第四章至第十一章的兩兩分組,每一組榮格八維的第一功能,都是相同的。
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【延伸閱讀】MBTI測驗不準?用榮格8維更認識自己的16型人格(上)、(下)
https://www.hakkaengineer.com/blog/mbti-cognitive-function-1/
https://www.hakkaengineer.com/blog/mbti-cognitive-function-2/
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今天就來談談第八組 E_FJ 吧。根據本書,E_FJ 具有以下特質 (摘錄):
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1. E_FJ 可以在別人難過時提供安慰,或是在別人衝突時扮演和事佬,久而久之,不小心就成為 24 小時諮詢熱線。
2. 由於老是扮演公關,又能理解別人需求,E_FJ 可能從小就受到大家喜愛;於是,他們對於別人不喜歡自己非常敏感,一旦感覺有人不喜歡他們,他們會覺得好像喉嚨卡到刺,不管刺多麽小,就是不舒服。
3. E_FJ 容易感覺自己被別人情緒綁架,或是被別人情緒所傷,有時看不出來對方只是就事論事,講出想法,並沒有要 E_FJ 照做,但是 E_FJ 可能為此改變自己去滿足他人。
4. 當 E_FJ 無論怎麼做,都無法維持團體和諧或被看見自己的價值時,可能選擇遠離人群,或是講話越來越酸,甚至諷刺,這是他們受過傷、沒有自信、或是小時候遭受暴力對待後,可能發展出來的狀況。
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以下是 N 和 S 的次分類:
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每個類型前面都有一句雪力的話,請注意那個「致」,這句話不是該類型的「總結」,而是作者給這型人格的「建議」。
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【致ENFJ:「你的貢獻可能未來才會受人由衷地欣賞」】
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特質:超前部署,照顧別人的需求。
關卡:太在意別人需求的一人公關公司。
提醒:劃出界限,你的人生不會崩塌。
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【致ESFJ:「大家過去與現在的需求,不一定是未來的需求」】
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特質:你就像凝聚全家族的族長。
關卡:人事物都會改變,記得更新腦中硬碟。
提醒:為了維護和諧,偶爾也要強悍。
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這系列就到此為止,我們有緣再見!!
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【創挑出處】
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