談到我和Priscilla的故事,就要由玩交友app開始講起。294Please respect copyright.PENANAVFV0W8gHwK
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我都是在最近的一兩年裡,才重啟自己對感情生活的追求。294Please respect copyright.PENANALhgbmEclv0
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自從半年前開始使用交友app開始,就成功配對過至少30個女生,但真正約到出來的有3個。比例上即大概1/10。294Please respect copyright.PENANAbag3aLZBPI
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Priscilla是其中之一,亦是目前唯一仍有後續的女生。294Please respect copyright.PENANAW8Qe0pHiko
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交友app有真愛嗎?老實說,對大部分人來講,效率不高。暫且不談騙徒、不良銷售等等的問題;只談供求的話,供求極度偏向女生,男生開局會處於劣勢,男生之間的競爭變得十分激烈。(有關交友app的詳細分析我會另外再出文討論。)294Please respect copyright.PENANAz9Zc1rmxQJ
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基本上除了Heymandi之外,絕大部份傳統交友app(憑對方相片判斷好感,雙方互like即成配對,可以聊天);因為男生開局會處於劣勢,所以要成功交友的話,80%講注意力,20%講男性吸引力。294Please respect copyright.PENANA8FaillcVD0
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簡單講,重點就是直接讓女生對你產生好奇心,而非吸引力;讓她感到有約會的價值。成功約出來後,在一對一的情境下,才開始真正展現自己的男女吸引力 ,才是王道。294Please respect copyright.PENANAfdVj9bnmeT
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如果你對自己的顏值、男性吸引力,沒有信心能超過其他95%的男競爭者的話,是必須照的以上的說話做。294Please respect copyright.PENANAPz5Jn5ysq8
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於是我自己,女裝連同男裝相片都一起上(是AND,不是OR,缺一不可),而且女裝照擺第一,男裝照擺第二。294Please respect copyright.PENANAk7e99wXlfd
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就這樣在Bumble上,我結識到Priscilla。294Please respect copyright.PENANA25Cm7jlX9e
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轉眼間,今天是2022.02.14,依照約定在今天約會。這亦是我人生的第二個,能夠和女生單獨約出來的情人節。294Please respect copyright.PENANAlorUHeqNZi
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「細佬,要買咩?」294Please respect copyright.PENANAkbM9DzNi3R
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情人節,絕大多數人都會送玫瑰花;可是,我又擔心這樣送花會顯得自己很平凡,不夠特別⋯⋯294Please respect copyright.PENANAP62qOUkiY4
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我想了又想,想了又想,然後看見花店旁邊擺放著名為「小雨點」的盤栽。294Please respect copyright.PENANA9ptvUr9eOy
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顏色暗紅暗綠,只用很少水就能存活,唔⋯⋯就買它送給Priscilla當作情人節禮物吧!294Please respect copyright.PENANAGIanrWm9gG
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「老闆,俾個小雨點我。」294Please respect copyright.PENANAb3KsXTCf19
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